KILLERS OF MARRIAGE

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               1.      Laziness kills marriage

               2.      Suspicion kills marriage

               3.      Lack of trust kills marriage

               4.      Lack of mutual respect kills marriage

               5.      Unforgiveness kills marriage (Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory)

               6.      Arguments kill a marriage.


               7.      Keeping secrets from your spouse kills a marriage.

               8.      Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc)

               9.      Poor communication kills a marriage.

             10.     Lies easily kill a marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect.

             11.     Relating more to your parents than your spouse kills a marriage.

             12.     Lack of, inadequate or unenjoyable sex kills a marriage.

             13.     Nagging kills marriage.

             14.     Too much talk and careless talk kills a marriage.

             15.     Spending less or little time with your spouse kills a marriage.
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             16.     Being too independent-minded kills a marriage.
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             17.     Love for party, money and spending/partying kills a marriage.

             18.     Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage

             19.     Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit kills not only marriage but your life

             20.     Spurning correction and reprimand kills a marriage.

             21.     Always wearing a sad face and being moody kills marriage.

             22.     FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills a marriage.

             23.     Uncontrolled or hot temperament kills a marriage.

             24.     Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God kills a marriage.

             25.     Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage

             26.     When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage.

             27.     Lack of the knowledge of the word of God kills a marriage.



Please, save a marriage today by sharing this. May God bring healing to every troubled home and family. Amen.

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  1. UnknownJune 2, 2018 at 10:02 PM

    I must say this applies to a dating or courtship also...

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